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Every single relationship that we have with
another person can be seen in terms of a contract, and the
relationship you have with a Clairvoyant Reader is no exception.
The relationship contract is always made up of unstated,
usually unconscious, agreements between people about they
are going to act with each other, including what they will
and won’t say and do!
Healthy, positive relationships have clearly established
contracts of honesty and a great deal of support between two
people. There should always be room for self-expression without
fear of being judged or of a reprisal, as well as a healthy
concern for the other’s well-being.
Conversely, co-dependent relationships are created through
negative contracts that limit, trap, use, control, or intimidate
the people in them. These relationships block creativity,
personal expression and freedom, and seem to interfere with
the natural growth of each person involved in them.
I have yet to meet the person, Client and Reader included,
that does not have these positive and negative contracts in
their lives. We can say that the areas in our lives that function
smoothly and in some way fulfil us, are the areas where we
participate in positive contracts. The areas where we have
problems are usually the areas where we have created negative
contracts with others, based on our own attitudes and negative
perspectives.
Think of your interactions with the people in your own life,
the ones that require you to play a certain role, perform
in a certain manner or act in a particular way? This is the
primary indicator of a negative contract. Now think of the
interactions with people, where you can be yourself, where
you do not have to hide anything or convince them of anything,
and where you know that they will honestly tell you their
thoughts on any situation, even if you don’t like it!
This is the primary indicator of a positive contract –
truth, trust and support! THIS IS HOW A READING SHOULD
BE!
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