There is an answer to all these questions
– but the solutions lay in your own hands and so does
So, you want your lover back, or want a commitment from him/her?
You want him/her to end an affair? Of course you do, and that
is why you are reading this page.
I can’t guarantee, of course, to solve your particular
dilemma. I can, however, give you some sound relationship
advice which I have clairvoyantly harvested over the years
and which has proven itself time after time. Please understand
this, however: all I can show you is how you might bring about
a solution. If, after taking my advice, your lover hasn’t
come back to you, then you must move on because it will mean
that it will never be nor was meant to be.
The first mistake clients usually make is to go chasing after
a departed lover, telling him/her how much they love him/her.
They often ask question after question, text, e mail or phone
- they try being nice and when that doesn’t work, they
try being hurtful.
These actions only succeed in driving the lover even further
way, and building barriers. Likewise, a married lover will
get fed up with someone who bombards him with question after
question looking for commitment. All the answers given below
have been perceived clairvoyantly over many, many years and
have assisted hundreds of clients. Please do not dismiss the
advice lightly, because in many cases acting upon it has proved
successful. I have referred to him/her in the masculine for
the purpose of this advice.
Relationships Advice 1. Take control of
the situation! Do not, under ANY circumstances attempt to
contact your ex lover. The reason for this is that you should
let him wonder what you are doing, rather than the other way
round. He will be expecting you to contact him, or chase him,
and will eventually be puzzled as to why you haven’t
made contact. Even ex lovers retain a degree of curiosity
and jealousy. I can virtually guarantee that at some stage
contact will be made.
Relationship Advice 2. Never wear your heart
on your sleeve. Under no circumstances should you tell your
ex lover that you still love him. All you are doing is setting
yourself up for rejection, because the only reason you are
asking the question is because you want him to reply that
he loves you as well. Likewise, never ask your ex if he still
loves you. Never tell him you miss him! (In fact don’t
tell him anything !)
Relationship Advice 3. Always answer your
lover's question with another question. Never answer “yes”
or “no” or provide him with an answer to his question.
Keep control by putting him in a position whereby he has to
tell you why he has asked the question. For example, he may
ask, “Can I come and see you?”, to which you reply
“Would you like to come and see me?” If he replies
“yes”, ask him “why?”! Another example
is that he may ask if you have found someone else, to which
the reply would be “why do you ask?” Eventually,
your ex will have to reveal the reasons the questions are
Relationship Advice 4. Never ask your ex
any questions! Just smile, be pleasant yet at the same time
do not give him any hints that you still have feelings for
Relationship Advice 5. Ex lovers are always
insecure. Play on this insecurity by making them think you
might have another lover. Don’t say anything, just act
as if you have. Eventually they will ask you directly and
then take the advice given in Advice 3.
Relationship Advice 6. Should your lover
be married, make sure he is following you and not vice versa.
Married lovers do not very often leave their partners and
will only panic if they feel they are losing you. Play on
this insecurity to discover if he is genuine about wanting
to leave his partner.
Relationship Advice 7. You have two ears
and one mouth for a specific reason. That is please listen
more than you talk. There is nothing more infuriating to an
ex lover than silence because they will then have to think
what might be happening.
In conclusion, please accept that I cannot guarantee to bring
your lover back or make a married lover leave his partner
or end an affair. What I can guarantee is that if you take
my advice, advice clairvoyantly given to me time after time,
then you stand a much better chance of succeeding.
All of my readers are qualified in relationship matters…
I strongly suggest you ask one of them for a reading.